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Self-Help for Weight Loss – 10 Tips to Lose Weight

self help for weight loss

Are you constantly yo-yo dieting?  Do you lose weight and then put it all back on again, plus some?  Or have you reached a plateau.  Losing weight can be a challenge because, unlike stopping smoking where you just don’t smoke again, you still have to eat. Not only that but there is temptation everywhere.  What can you do to help yourself?
 
1.       Realistic goals
The first thing to do is set yourself a target with milestones along the way.  Unless you are the kind of person who loves big bold goals, smaller goals might be more achieveable for you.
 
2.       Have a big enough ‘why’
Motivation is much stronger than willpower, so make yourself a really long list of all the reasons you want to lose weight.  What are the benefits to you?  If you are losing weight for someone else it will not be nearly so effective.  This is a journey you take for your own benefit.
 
3.       Keep hydrated
A lot of people confuse thirst with hunger.  Make sure you keep hydrated throughout the day and, if you do get hungry, drink a glass of water and wait 10 minutes before deciding if you realy want to eat.
 
4.       Variety is the spice of life
Sometimes our bodies just crave nutrients rather than any old food.  So do make sure that you keep your food intake varied so that you are getting all the nutrition you need and to avoid boredom.  Who wants to live on beige food every day?
 
5.       Be wary of the saboteurs
It is strange that as soon as you say you are on a diet, people seem to want to feed you cakes and biscuits like never before.  “Just one” is a constant refrain.  Manage these by saying you are full and couldn’t eat another thing.  Or, if they buy you chocolates, just say that they don’t agree with you.  It makes life a lot easier and your weight loss goal more achievable.
 
6.       No more waste on waist
Eating leftovers, snacking and huge portions are not going to save anyone starving in Africa but they will cause your waistline to expand.  Make it a rule that you are no longer going to treat your body like a rubbish bin.  Remember that you only need to eat 500 calories a day more than your body needs to put on 1lb a week.  That’s 3.5 stones a year! 
 
7.       Staying regular
It is important that your bowels function efficiently so do be sure to eat plenty of fibre and drink lots of water.  Avoid laxatives though as they can make your bowels lazy and can compound the problem.  If you still have problems, do contact Tricia Woolfrey on  0845 130 0854 for a consultation.  Regular bowel movements are important for your weight and your health.  For more information on fibre-rich food, the Meal Planner will help you.
 
8.       Manage your energy
When your blood sugar is low you will be very tired and crave the wrong foods.  So, to keep your blood sugar stable eat little and often and ALWAYS eat breakfast so that your metabolism gets a boost.  Reduce sugar, white bread, pastries, white pasta and cakes.  If you have to have sugar do eat it with a healthy meal as it helps to stabilise your energy.
 
9.       Manage your emotions
Most people eat too much because they are eating in response to their emotions.  If you find that you crave a specific food it is likely that this is emotional hunger rather than physical hunger.  Learning how to understand your emotions and respond to them appropriately is essential.  The Food Diary will help you to understand your eating, while Ultimate Weight Loss CD will help you overcome emotional eating habits.  Food only distracts you from your problems it is no solution to them.
 
10.    Eliminate food intolerances
Sometimes people find it hard to lose weight because they are eating foods they are intolerant to.  Having a food intolerance test can help you understand what foods your body is struggling with.  Click here to find out more.

© Tricia Woolfrey 2014

About the Author
Tricia Woolfrey is an advanced clinical hypnotherapist, coach and wellness practitioner.  She is also a master practitioner in obesity issues and eating disorders.  Author of self-help books, CDs and MP3s she has practices in Byfleet Village, Surrey and Harley Street, London.  www.yourempoweredself.co.uk.
 

Cellular Health

Cellular Health by Tricia Woolfrey

Did you know that you have an estimated 10 trillion cells in your body?  They are the building blocks of your body and are the smallest part capable of processes that define life.  They are so tiny – you would need about 40 to stretch across the size of a full-stop, yet they are vital for human life.

The cells are responsible for:

  • Processing nutrients
  • Converting food into energy
  • Building your body’s structures
  • Carrying out specialised functions

Good health or bad health is often determined by the health of your cells.  All health starts at a cellular level and any disease can exist at this level years before you experience any symptoms.  Because your cells need nutrients, nutritional deficiency can lead to disease.  We are often told about Recommended Daily Amounts.  What we are not told is that this is the absolute minimum that the body needs.  This does not account for environmental or emotional stressors you may be suffering which deplete nutrients more quickly.  In addition, due to farming methods, and how we store and cook foods, your food is simply not as nutritious as it was years ago.

Some people are lucky enough to mistreat their bodies and get to live a long life.  But your health is not something you want to pay Russian Roulette with.  When you support your cells nutritionally, you protect yourself.

To perform their function well, they need specific nutrients so that they are recognised by other body cells as friend rather than foe.  When cells see each other as an enemy, this can cause autoimmune disorders such as psoriasis, rheumatoid arthritis and lupus:

  • Amino acids which are derived from proteins
  • Essential fatty acids
  • Healthy carbohydrates
  • Vitamins
  • Minerals
  • Trace elements
  • Antioxidants to protect them from free radicals
  • Water

It is also helpful for cellular health to:

  • Exercise regularly
  • Manage negative stress

When your cells do not receive the nutrients they need, they become unhealthy and cannot communicate their messages to each other.  This leads to disease over time including cardiovascular disease, osteoporosis, diabetes, and cancer.

When you are ill, conventional medicine will treat symptoms rather than causes and the medication offered may affect other body systems and create side effects which require yet further medication.

By taking care of yourself naturally, you are taking preventative action and helping your body to heal itself when you do have a health challenge.

So, eat healthily and make sure you use good quality supplements (food state) so that your body can absorb them, rather than the synthetic ones more easily found in the High Street.  As someone once said, there is no greater wealth than health.  For a health consultation contact Tricia Woolfrey on 0845 130 0854.

© Tricia Woolfrey 2012

Tricia Woolfrey is an integrative therapist, an advanced clinical hypnotherapist, master practitioner in NLP, nutritionist and author, and utilises bioenergetics to help you be the best you can be.  She has practices in Surrey and Harley Street, London.  She can be reached on 0845 130 0854 www.pw-hypnotherapy.co.uk.

ME Awareness

ME Awareness

This is ME Awareness Week.  Myalgic Encephalomyelitis is often confused with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and Fibromylagia.  Whilst they share some symptoms, there are some important differences.

ME often follows a viral infection and, in my experience, the people who suffer with it the most are high achievers who tend to power through problems, not listening to their bodies when they want a rest.  Because they don’t listen to their bodies, their bodies just seize up and force the rest.

Symptoms include mental tiredness, physical pain, forgetfulness, confusion and feeling disoriented.  There are many, many more and the sufferer can be debilitated sometimes for years.

It’s important to look at the emotional and physical factors of the problem to enable the sufferer to get back to full health and approaches include building core energy, dealing with ambition, drive and perfectionist traits, working at a cellular level, balancing blood sugars and adrenals, and reviewing diet.

If you think you may be suffering from ME, why not try one of my latest MP3s to help build you up?  Overcome ME can really help.

In addition, it helps to see a naturopathic, integrative therapist. Call me to see how I could help you.  0845 130 0854.  Or visit http://www.self-help-resources.co.uk/Health_Screening_&_Food_Intolerance_Testing.htm for more information.

Reflexology – so much more than just a lovely foot rub

If you’ve not had a course of reflexology treatments you’d be forgiven for thinking that it is simply a relaxing foot massage.  Of course it is a relaxing foot massage, but it is also much, much more than that.   It is a therapy which can have a profound influence on your health and well-being, both physical and emotional.

Reflexology is based on a system of reflex points, or areas, on the feet which correspond with the organs and systems in your body.  These reflex points are a map, if you like, to the rest of your body.  A trained reflexologist will work over each of these reflex areas using different techniques – thumb walking, pinpointing, flexing, massaging – to stimulate the area.  Their sensitive fingers will pick up subtle differences in the reflex areas and they may linger over a spot where they detect an imbalance.  And all of this is done whilst you just sit back and relax, enjoying the sensations.

After a single session, some customers will feel deeply relaxed, will probably sleep better and feel calmer for a few days.  Some will feel energised and raring to go, as if their batteries have been recharged.

But it’s with the regular sessions that I have seen real improvements in the well-being of people.  My customers find that it helps them in many ways:

  • Managing and easing the pain of their arthritis*
  • To reduce feelings of anxiety and has helped rebuild confidence
  • They are less troubled by insomnia
  • As a nurturing, supportive, calming therapy, it is helping a customer who is grieving after their spouse passed away
  • Feelings of stress were lowered and my customer become pregnant when she had previously found it difficult to conceive
  • Feel calmer and healthier
  • One customer is eating more healthily, her periods are starting to return and she is hopeful that she will be pregnant soon
  • Stress-related digestive problems disappeared when she was having regular sessions
  • A busy business women found she did her most creative during treatments, enabling her to grow her business
     

However, you don’t need to have a particular condition to enjoy the benefits of reflexology.  Regular treatments will help you relax, improve mood, help sleep, relieve tension and improve a sense of well-being.  Reflexology is a gentle, deeply relaxing and non-invasive therapy and is suitable for people of all ages.  And it is important that we look after ourselves – if we don’t then how can we look after others?

Please note that reflexology cannot cure or diagnose anything, and it should not be used instead of conventional health care – always consult your GP or health professional for medical attention or advice.

*Reflexology is not suitable if you have arthritis in your feet or ankles.

About Julia McPherson

Julia is a complementary therapist, specialising in reflexology to help people find balance and wellbeing.  She offers a home visiting service for people in and around Sunbury on Thames, Walton on Thames, Hersham, Weybridge and Cobham.

Julia McPherson
Harmony Treatments
Email: Julia@harmonytreatments.com
Website: www.harmonytreatments.com
Phone: 07831 611261

Hypnotherapy for a Change

Hypnotherapy by Tricia Woolfrey

Creating change in your life can be difficult – habits can be ingrained for many years and it can seem easier to stay stuck than move forward.

In the hands of a skilled professional, hypnotherapy is great at overcoming those blocks to achieving change, making change easier.  However, it’s success depends on your motivation, which a good hypnotherapist will assess in your first session.  Hypnotherapy can’t force change on you but facilitate the change through you, so that you regain control over your life.  It doesn’t take away your free-will in any way.

Would it surprise you to know that hypnosis has been around for thousands of years?  It was also accepted by the British Medical Association in 1958.  Hypnotherapy, is a process not an event and the number of sessions you need will depend on the complexity of the problem and the degree to which you are reliant on the problem as a coping mechanism for other things.

Your choice of hypnotherapist is very important – find someone who is well trained and who has a lot of experience.   Finding someone who really understands psychology is a must too, as there can often be subtle nuances to behaviour which will affect the approach taken.  Don’t be afraid to ask for their qualifications and what continuous professional development they do – it’s important to have someone with a strong level of skill who is motivated to keep their skills up to date.  You also want to find someone who you feel comfortable with.

So, what IS hypnotherapy?

Hypnosis allows communication with your unconscious mind – that part of you which is constantly influencing your thoughts and behaviour –  to help you achieve your goals and overcome any obstacles and unconscious blocks.

It is an altered state of awareness called trance, and is something we experience naturally every day – like when you drive from A to B and don’t recall the journey, because your conscious mind has been thinking about other things, or when you are out for a whole evening and feel that you have only been out for short while, or even when you cry at a sad film.  All of these are natural hypnotic states.  During hypnosis, you are in control throughout..  It is not sleep.  It is not even relaxation, though most people feel relaxed when they are hypnotised.

Hypnotherapy  is creating this naturally occurring phenomena for therapeutic effect – that which is good for your emotional and physical wellbeing.

Whilst hypnotherapy is not a magic bullet, it does need your active collaboration. It is a very powerful tool to help you on your journey.

You are in control throughout

Hypnotherapy helps you achieve what you want for yourself.  You can’t be forced to do anything you don’t want to do or say anything you don’t want to say – you are in control throughout.

Almost everyone can be hypnotised

Anyone from the age of around 5 with at least a normal level of intelligence can be hypnotised – if you want to be.  You cannot be hypnotised against your will so feeling comfortable with your hypnotherapist is very, very important.  I like to give the first half hour of my session free of charge and no obligation – so that my client can be 100% sure – and this really helps their progress.

What does it feel like?

Everyone experiences it differently, but most people simply feel as though they have their eyes shut, and able to hear everything that goes on around them.  Nothing more than that.  Others feel a tremendous sense of relaxation, yet others feel tingly or numb, heavy or light.    Or all of the above.  Or none of them.  The secret is not to expect a particular experience, not to try to relax, simply allow it to happen in whichever way is right for you.

How is it different to stage hypnosis?

People often think that hypnotherapy will be a magic cure where someone can make them do anything without any effort on their part – just like the stage shows.  And sometimes it is.  However, the only similarity with a stage show is that they both use the state of hypnosis.  A stage show uses this state for entertainment.  All individuals who participate do so because they want to.  The engagement is momentary.  There is no emotional agenda involved – just fun.  With hypnotherapy, this can involve working on problems which have often existed for years, through layers of self-awareness, vulnerability, denial, and even resistance.  If there was no resistance, you would have resolved the problem on your own.  Working with your subconscious mind with hypnotherapy, it is easier to overcome these, developing new ways of being so that you can live the life you want.

What people say about hypnotherapy

Here are some typical comments people make to show you the different ways people respond:

  • “I got immediate results – I was very impressed!”
  • “I didn’t notice anything until friends and family started to say how much happier and calmer I seemed – then I realised I was!”
  • “I’m still not sure if I was hypnotised but I do know that I have achieved what I wanted to – so I guess I must have been”

If you are looking to make changes in your life, do try hypnotherapy.  It just makes change easier.  It helps you deal with stress, self-esteem, anxiety, depression and insomnia.  It’s also great for weight loss, smoking cessation and IBS.  If you have anything which stress makes worse, hypnotherapy can usually make better.

My clients regularly tell me that they gained far more than they came for as often other problems are resolved at the same time.  Hypnotherapy could be the best investment you ever make in yourself.

© Tricia Woolfrey 2012

Tricia Woolfrey is an integrative therapist, an advanced clinical hypnotherapist, master practitioner in NLP, nutritionist, and author and utilises bioenergetics to help you be the best you can be.  She has practices in Surrey and Harley Street, London.  She can be reached on 0845 130 0854 www.pw-hypnotherapy.co.uk.

Stress and the Five Pillars

Stress Management by Tricia Woolfrey

Stress seems to be an ever-present force in many people’s lives.  If you are lucky, you will have long periods of positive stress interspersed with periods of enjoyable calm, punctuated by the odd bout of negative stress (nobody can avoid it altogether).  If you aren’t that lucky, you may be encouraged to learn that it is possible to manage your stress but first of all it is useful to understand more about it.

There are basically three levels of stress.  The first level is calm.  You’ve heard the expression “he is so laid back he’s horizontal”?  Well, you need a little stress to have sufficient adrenaline to function at your best.  You also need a little calm so that you recharge your batteries and create balance in your life.

The second level is eustress.  This is any stress which has a beneficial effect.  It provides feelings of fulfilment and achievement.  It is where you feel energised and focused and in your flow.  It gives you confidence and makes you feel empowered.  However, too much excitement can also be bad for you as it raises your adrenaline and heart rate too high.  So relaxation is important for balance.

The third level is negative stress and this is what can be harmful to your mood, your relationships, your productivity and your health.

The five pillars, below, are the ways you respond to or contribute to stress:  psychologically, emotionally, physically, spiritually and life-load.  They each interact with the other to influence your stress in one way or another:

THE FIVE PILLARS
PSYCHOLOGICAL   EMOTIONAL PHYSICAL  LIFESTYLE   SPIRITUAL
Your thoughts Your feelings Nutrition & biochemistry Life load Purpose & meaning
Your behavioural response to stress Your emotional response to stress Your physical response to stress How your lifestyle contributes to stress Your ability to transcend negative stress

Your thoughts create feelings – if you think a negative thought you feel bad, and if you think a positive thought you feel good.  Your feelings, in turn create a physical response.  How you treat your body can also create an emotional response (have you had the feeling when you are over-tired and become tearful or irritable?  Or too much coffee makes you anxious?).  Your life-load – how much you have to do – can leave you feeling exhausted.  And finally, if you lack purpose and meaning in life, your ability to deal with stress can be compromised.

When your thinking is positive, you feel emotionally strong; when you take care of your health you contribute to your emotional resilience; when you manage your life so there is a balance of doing and being, you feel a sense of equilibrium to rise above challenges; and when your life has purpose and meaning then you are more able to deal with life’s trials and tribulations.  This then gives you the five foundations:

THE FIVE FOUNDATIONS
Clarity ▪ Skills ▪ Confidence ▪ Health ▪ Energy

As an integrative therapist, I work on all these levels to help people develop their stress resilience, become healthier, happier and more confident. To find out more call me on 0345 130 0854.

© Tricia Woolfrey 2012

About Tricia Woolfrey

Tricia Woolfrey is a hypnotherapist, coach and wellness practitioner with practices in Byfleet Village, Surrey and Harley Street London.  She is a trainer and author.

Contact:
tricia@yourempoweredself.co.uk
www.yourempoweredself.co.uk
0345 130 0854

10 Steps to Boosting Your Seratonin Naturally

Seratonin and Depression by Tricia Woolfrey
Feeling good is your birthright.  But it isn’t always easy when there is so much doom and gloom in the media, so many demands placed upon you and with little time to think about your wellbeing.  We can all feel a little low sometimes, but if you are feeling low more than seems natural, you may be low in serotonin.

Serotonin is a neurotransmitter – a chemical messenger in the body communicating signals between neurons and cells – and is good for:

  • Mood stability
  • Self-esteem
  • Impulse-control
  • Anxiety reduction
  • Promoting restful sleep
  • Pain control
  • Overcoming negativity
  • Feelings of wellbeing

There are numerous things you can do to boost serotonin.  Some people do this synthetically through anti-depressants but these don’t always work and you can become addicted to them.  Or you can do this naturally with the following healthy tips:

  1. Eat protein with each meal
  2. Have a small jacket potato (with the skin) before you go to bed – it’s OK to have a little butter with it too. (Read Potatoes, Not Prozac for more information on this).
  3. Reduce serotonin leaches such as wheat and rye bread.
  4. Enjoy some sunlight every day (even if it is a grey day, you can benefit from the sun’s rays).
  5. Practice positive thinking.  It’s good to start your day with a positive focus too – what you are looking forward to in your day for example.  Read Think Positive, Feel Good for excellent help in this area.
  6. Moderate aerobic exercise (too much can have the opposite effect).  Exercise such as aerobics, running and cycling are particularly good.  If you aren’t in the mood for exercise, it could be a sign of low serotonin.
  7. Regular massages feel good and promote positive serotonin.
  8. Manage your stress levels.  EFT is an excellent way of doing this.  See www.self-help-resources EFT Demo.
  9. Look at a supplement regime with a qualified nutritionist – preferably using the Asyra Pro which, in itself, can boost your serotonin levels.  
  10. Eat the following serotonin-boosting foods: 

     

    Vegetables

    Spirulina seaweed
    Spinach
    Soybeans
    Parsley
    Asparagus
    Mung Beans
    Greens
    Bamboo shoots
    Mushrooms (white or portabello)
    Red leaf lettuce
    Soy Sauce
    Tofu
    Nigari

    *****

    Fish and Seafoods

    Prawns
    Lobster
    Crab
    Crayfish
    Cod
    Tuna
    Dover Sole
    Mussels
    Snapper
    Salmon

    *
       

    Fruit

    Plantain
    Pineapple
    Banana
    Kiwi
    Plums

     

    Meat

    Pork
    Game
    Lamb
    Beef
    Veal
    Duck
    Turkey
    Chicken

    *
       

    Seeds

    Sesame seeds
    Sunflower seeds

     

    Dairy

    Fat free cottage cheese
    Mozarella cheese from skimmed milk
    Low fat cheddar cheese
    Skimmed milk

     

If you follow this 10-step plan, you should find that you enjoy a more positive mood, better sleep a greater sense of wellbeing without the negative side effects of anti-depressants.  You know it makes sense.

© Tricia Woolfrey 2012

Tricia Woolfrey
tricia@pw-hypnotherapy.co.uk
www.pw-hypnotherapy.co.uk
0845 130 0854

About Tricia Woolfrey

Tricia Woolfrey is a hypnotherapist, coach and wellness practitioner with practices in Byfleet Village, Surrey and Harley Street London.